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  • InFinance

    How I Paid Off $5,000 in 3 Months

    “When I first started getting serious about paying down my debts, I had to really think about why it was important for me to get out of debt as soon as possible,” said Kristin Sutton, founder of this platform Debt Free Black Girl in a recent newsletter.  

    Good question. Why is being debt free important to me? Well frankly, I am tired of dealing with the emotional consequences that come with debt such as stress, anxiety, shame, depression, low self esteem just to name a few. Since I started this journey I have had to constantly remind myself why I am doing this in the first place. It has helped tremendously to keep me focused and remind myself of my purpose and changed my outlook on my finances.

    Here’s what I did to accelerate my debt payoff in no particular order:

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  • InFinance

    The Journey That Led Me to Start DFBG

    It was the summer of 2003; I was 17 years old and was gearing up to attend school at North Carolina A&T (Aggie Pride). As soon as I stepped onto campus, they had a table set up for students to sign up for credit cards. Bruh! I was like a kid in a candy store as I approached the table and signed my name on the dotted line. I just had to get my hands on one of those cards! Mistake #1.

    I knew nothing about how credit cards REALLY worked, and how much trouble they would ultimately get me into. So picture me, a young naive ‘carefree black girl’ with a credit card. A CREDIT CARD! I would just ball out with no remorse; frequent shopping trips to the local mall and going out to eat and footing the bill for all of my friends was the norm. I must have thought I was Diddy or something. Like who does that? Just being RECKLESS! Not realizing that I actually had to pay all of that money back plus extra (just kidding), I was living the good life as a poor little rich girl (I was spoiled SMH).

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  • InFinance

    How I Got It Together And Started Gathering My Coins

    Broke. Poor. Overdrawn. Late Payments.

    These are just a few words that I chose to leave behind in 2017.  My financial vocabulary got a new year’s makeover along with other resolutions that I plan to execute in 2018. But how did I get even get here?

    My relationship with money only really began at 20. Before then, I lived at home in Zimbabwe where my parents took care of me. I wasn’t spoiled, I knew the value of money and I appreciated the hard work my parents put in to afford me a comfortable lifestyle and an even better upbringing, but nothing could have prepared me for my years in university in Canada and the real struggle it was for me to finish my degree because of financial hardship.

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  • InFinance

    3 Emotional Consequences of Being in Debt

    Photo Cred: She Lives Deliberately

    As a mental health therapist, I’m truly committed to ensuring that the people I encounter and work with take care of themselves mentally and emotionally. Money is so strongly connected to our emotions. Most people don’t realize this and the first thing they think about is the amount of money they have in the bank.

    Sometimes our feelings towards money are so strong that we start to hate money because we believe that it is the cause of all of our problems. Hate is a strong emotion.

    The truth is that the problem isn’t money. The problem is how we approach money, how we think about money and how we handle money. People who constantly think negatively about money, tend to be plagued by money problems their whole life. This can cause a downward spiral emotionally.

    One of the main issues that people face is being in debt. Being in debt can literally take a toll on you emotionally, if you’re not careful.

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  • InFaith

    #SBC30DayFaith: Prayer Journaling Challenge Day 15

    Y’all I’ve been slacking the past few days, but I’m back like cooked crack! LOL. 

    The goal of the #SBC30DayFaith Prayer Journaling Challenge is for us to really push to build our faith through practical obedience to God the entire month of January. Watch this video from Fatima to learn more about it.

    We’re using the S.O.A.P. Bible Study Method for the challenge. We’re reading and meditating on a scripture provided by Fatima each day and then break it down using the S.O.A.P. Method.

    The S.O.A.P. Method simply stands for:

    SCRIPTURE – Write down the scripture in your journal.

    OBSERVATION – Go deeper, what does the scripture mean/what is it all about? Look into the chapter the scripture is in as well for context.

    APPLICATION – How can you apply it to your life?

    PRAYER – Write out a prayer aligned with the scripture and then pray it out loud.

    And das it!

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