How did I get there you ask?
It all started as far back as my childhood, but I’ll save those details for later. Let’s fast forward to college. When I first arrived as a freshman, I was lured into signing up for a credit card on campus. I would always go out to eat and shopping with my friends, and often times, I would foot the entire bill! I was ballin’ out of control and having the time of my life. Who did I think I was? When the credit card bills started to roll in, I would call home crying to mom and dad for them to rescue me. What seemed like a blessing to me, turned out to be a complete burden.
Immediately after graduating, I was thrown into the real world and started working. Since I was never taught how to manage my finances, I would spend all of my paychecks in a weekend’s time, living a lavish lifestyle. The only problem with this was that I couldn’t really afford to. However, this was the norm for years.
My finances were a complete wreck and so were my emotions as a result.
After finishing graduate school, I moved to Atlanta (without a job lined up) to start fresh and be “free” but ironically found myself deep in bondage. I was jobless, in over $100K of debt, 40 pounds overweight, in a deep depression, and almost homeless (got evicted, but my father helped me move back home).
During all of the chaos, I started seeing a therapist that I couldn’t afford to see, but was in desperate need of someone to talk to. This is where I first began to change the way that I thought. After moving back home, I shifted my mindset completely and as a result, I’ve paid off over $10K in debt in under a year and lost 40 pounds. Although I’m not completely debt free yet, I’ll be there sooner rather than later because I made that life changing decision to uncover the root causes of my money problems and fix those first.
As a licensed mental health counselor and someone who has personally struggled with money, I made it my mission to help young women like myself shift their money mindsets so they can live lavishly while on a budget. Being on a budget doesn’t mean that you can’t have any fun! Just remember to build that fun into your budget. Always have a plan.
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